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[AnewKINDofFEELING]

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I'm assuming no one here listens to Pink Floyd, since Rogers Waters is unabashedly one of the most egotistical pricks in all of music?

I think the distinction (for me, at least) is that Maynard goes out of his way to be an asshole a lot of the times. I think the only other person that approaches him in that aspect is Mike Patton. Both insanely gifted vocalists. Both assholes. Patton does seem a bit more facetious about it.

[FeebleFables]

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I am never an asshole and I am offended by the insinuation.

I disagree with your self-assessment

I am also not asking people to pay $90 to see me then calling them all trash.

Maynard does?

[AnewKINDofFEELING]

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I disagree with your self-assessment

That's fine. I'm smarter than you, anyway.
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Maynard does?

I have read quotes from Maynard that rip Tool fans pretty hard. I more enjoy the Joshua Homme brand of asshole.

[halcyon712]

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Roger Waters is definitely an ego maniac, but most people seem to think it's because of what happened between him and David Gilmour. Luckily, they have, for the most part, reconciled.

I think he's more egotistical because of the way he approached The Wall specifically. Yes it was an amazing spectacle, but to make people pay an enormous amount of money to see a show that half of which is behind a wall where you can't see the band (which is the reason to go see a concert) is pretentious as hell.
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And yes, this conversation is completely circular and mundane, but it's nice to read other people's opinions about the subject.

Debate without insult is the only debate I like and participate in.

[.cheapham.]

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I have read quotes from Maynard that rip Tool fans pretty hard. I more enjoy the Joshua Homme brand of asshole.

Have you met diehard Tool fans? It's hard to blame Maynard for ripping them...

[AnewKINDofFEELING]

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Have you met diehard Tool fans? It's hard to blame Maynard for ripping them...

That's true, but I also think that is a reflection of the band's attitude to a certain extent.

[TheRuleofThree]

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This is my general thought on the matter:

Art and interpersonal skills are separate, and it's a silly limit to place on oneself to expect that any art you enjoy be produced by someone with a specific set of social skills.

Yes, of course, its easier to support nice people than it is to support assholes. At the same time, celebrity tends to distort the actual personalities of people. All anyone on this board knows about Maynard, or Josh Homme, or Roger Waters, or any other "rock star" (using the term loosely) is, at most, derived from your perception of their personality as depicted through anecdotes, interviews, videos, and similar forms of media. At most, you have a personal story of being dismissed or embraced as the basis for your understanding of their personality.

But people are complicated, and it can be very easy for someone with a particular demeanor to be characterized as something they aren't, both positively and negatively. Maynard provides a great example. He clearly cannot stand music media and interviewers in general, and most interviews with him go south because he obviously gets sick of the same questions over and over again. You could argue that's a sign of his intelligence or argue that it's a sign that he chose the wrong job and is a selfish asshole - it just depends on your opinion of the guy. At the same time, though, if you've seen "Blood Into Wine," the documentary on his vineyard, it really casts him in a light I've never seen him in and shows that he's actually a pretty quiet and passionate guy that seems to just be at a point in his life when he doesn't really devote any time to things that seem trivial to him. Again - dick, or genius? All depends on your starting point.

I think that both sides in this discussion have merit but it just boils down to reinforcing your own perceptions. I used to think Brandon Boyd seemed awesome, and now the dude comes across as pretentious and self-serving to me, even though I love his band's music as much as before and have no idea how he ACTUALLY is. I just get annoyed by the guy draping himself around his mic stand, sipping wine, throwing in covers of the Doors in the middle of "Are You In?" and making himself feel connected to his fans just because they have an over-enthusiastic manager that does everything for them. But maybe it's just jealousy.

Ultimately, no one on here can say anything about the "true" personality of any of the artists we're mentioning here. You can perceive what you will and let it either reinforce or contradict your opinion of their art, but you can't really speak to whether or not they're good people. I'm sure you can think of people in your life that come across as rude and selfish and obnoxious but in actuality are good, honest, trustworthy, and compassionate. And if you can't, then you've got a higher standard for friendship than I do. My friends and family members run the gamut, and I would never want to be judged by someone else based on an interview with me, or years of interviews, or a Youtube video, or an anecdote.

[AnewKINDofFEELING]

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This is my general thought on the matter:

Art and interpersonal skills are separate, and it's a silly limit to place on oneself to expect that any art you enjoy be produced by someone with a specific set of social skills.

Yes, of course, its easier to support nice people than it is to support assholes. At the same time, celebrity tends to distort the actual personalities of people. All anyone on this board knows about Maynard, or Josh Homme, or Roger Waters, or any other "rock star" (using the term loosely) is, at most, derived from your perception of their personality as depicted through anecdotes, interviews, videos, and similar forms of media. At most, you have a personal story of being dismissed or embraced as the basis for your understanding of their personality.

But people are complicated, and it can be very easy for someone with a particular demeanor to be characterized as something they aren't, both positively and negatively. Maynard provides a great example. He clearly cannot stand music media and interviewers in general, and most interviews with him go south because he obviously gets sick of the same questions over and over again. You could argue that's a sign of his intelligence or argue that it's a sign that he chose the wrong job and is a selfish asshole - it just depends on your opinion of the guy. At the same time, though, if you've seen "Blood Into Wine," the documentary on his vineyard, it really casts him in a light I've never seen him in and shows that he's actually a pretty quiet and passionate guy that seems to just be at a point in his life when he doesn't really devote any time to things that seem trivial to him. Again - dick, or genius? All depends on your starting point.

I think that both sides in this discussion have merit but it just boils down to reinforcing your own perceptions. I used to think Brandon Boyd seemed awesome, and now the dude comes across as pretentious and self-serving to me, even though I love his band's music as much as before and have no idea how he ACTUALLY is. I just get annoyed by the guy draping himself around his mic stand, sipping wine, throwing in covers of the Doors in the middle of "Are You In?" and making himself feel connected to his fans just because they have an over-enthusiastic manager that does everything for them. But maybe it's just jealousy.

Ultimately, no one on here can say anything about the "true" personality of any of the artists we're mentioning here. You can perceive what you will and let it either reinforce or contradict your opinion of their art, but you can't really speak to whether or not they're good people. I'm sure you can think of people in your life that come across as rude and selfish and obnoxious but in actuality are good, honest, trustworthy, and compassionate. And if you can't, then you've got a higher standard for friendship than I do. My friends and family members run the gamut, and I would never want to be judged by someone else based on an interview with me, or years of interviews, or a Youtube video, or an anecdote.

Good points. Darroh Sudderth is one of the nicest (talented) singers I've met, but the last time I saw them, he was threatening to "fucking kill" a guy in the crowd.

Like I've said before, Tool's music doesn't stand out to me. It never did, even before I knew anything about Maynard's attitude. I can listen to it, but I would never go out of my way to listen to it. His behavior is just the icing on the cake.

[halcyon712]

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Have you met diehard Tool fans? It's hard to blame Maynard for ripping them...

I used to be one of those diehard Tool fans. But I've never been this piece of shit they tend to be generalized as. As a matter of fact, at least 80% of the people I've met from the ToolArmy website (both in person and online) have been super cool people, and are still good friends of mine to this day, even though I haven't even logged into the website in over 2 years.

[.cheapham.]

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I used to be one of those diehard Tool fans. But I've never been this piece of shit they tend to be generalized as. As a matter of fact, at least 80% of the people I've met from the ToolArmy website (both in person and online) have been super cool people, and are still good friends of mine to this day, even though I haven't even logged into the website in over 2 years.

Heh, right on. I was definitely playing on the generalized obnoxious tool fans I knew from highschool and such. They were a pretty major barrier preventing me from getting into the band until well after Lateralus came out. I know the generalization isn't fair, but damn those kids I knew annoyed the heck out of me.

I hadn't realized Nick Homme had such a bad reputation by the way. I missed out on that I guess.

[AnewKINDofFEELING]

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I hadn't realized Nick Homme had such a bad reputation by the way. I missed out on that I guess.

Josh is more playful in his statements, but he has been known to call fans douchebags when they act like it. He makes it more personal, though. There are great videos of him on stage.

Now, Nick Oliveri is apparently a major asshole, which is why he is no longer in QOTSA. Apparently he really had it out for Troy Van Leeuwen's old lady and he had to be fired.

[.cheapham.]

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Now, Nick Oliveri is apparently a major asshole, which is why he is no longer in QOTSA. Apparently he really had it out for Troy Van Leeuwen's old lady and he had to be fired.

I remember when all that went down. Oliveri made it sound like he was doing nothing wrong, just "some partying" or something like that, and thus Josh was the real bad guy. Sounded fishy to me all things considered.

[Gnomad]

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I had heard it was because he was beating his girlfriend or something.

[Jamis who?]

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I actually asked Josh Homme if his side project in Them Crooked Vultures are planning a second LP, he said after Grohl is finished with the foo fighter album cycle, then after he is finished with the new soon to be Queens of the Stone age album cycle, they will start writing for a second TCV album. could be a few years from now but I'm excited for that.

[TheRuleofThree]

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I think the biggest reason this discussion is always difficult for me is because I know several people in my personal life that are enormously gifted in artistic expression while simultaneously suffering from some pretty debilitating social/mental handicaps like Asberger's and Autism. My dad is probably the most talented musician I know - he played in session for Isaac Hayes and similar artists and toured with the Temptations as a guitarist. Underneath all of his talent, though, is an impulsive and compulsive guy that has the occasional manic episode and struggles through the most basic social interactions. He's always been that way, even when he was a child. Sometimes I even wonder if excessive musical talent is sometimes characterized by these types of "disorders" and handicaps.

There are a lot of people out there that don't just expect musicians to excel at music. They also expect them to be public relations professionals and social butterflies that are willing to answer every email, shake every hand, smile in every photo, and respond in all the right ways to every utterance from a fan. For a band like dredg that has experienced a moderate amount of success, it becomes hard enough. When you're someone like Maynard, you can't even leave your house without people asking you what you meant by a certain line in a song you wrote a decade ago. He has people that hang out outside of his property in Arizona. My point isn't that he has an excuse to be a dickhead - Danny Carey, for instance, has a different sort of experience, and Wayne (halycon) already shared what his interaction with him was like (although one of my best friends in Albuquerque met Danny Carey at a restaurant and said he was fantastically kind and took photos). My point is simply that it's easy for someone not in those shoes to interpret these personalities in one way when in fact we don't see the totality of their lives (the loss of privacy, the monotony of the questions asked by interviewers that most of the time don't give a shit about your art, the song requests, the unsolicited negative reviews of your music from fans that wish you would rewrite your debut, etc.). I just think that we expect far too much from musicians when the only thing we should really care about is their actual artistic output. Everything else is secondary.