Thank you for this conversation, Rule.*
Marriage is absolutely a religious practice, and as you know, there are many, many gay religious citizens, and yes, they can find churches that will give them that spiritual union they want.
No matter how many churches marry people--gay or straight--we need that civil marriage. But straight people who get civil marriages can go anywhere in the country and their marriage is recognized. They can move from state to state and they remain married wherever they go. That's not the case for civil unions for gay people. And NO politician who says he/she supports only civil unions adds that they want this changed. They, instead, leave it up to the states (and we all know how well that worked during Jim Crow). They all act as if giving us the crumbs of civil unions isn't an insult. And it is. Until a politician says, "I'm against gay marriage, but I support civil unions for gay people that are recognized throughout the country, and will introduce legislation for this," I'll still consider him/her a bigoted politician offering nothing more than a separate but equal policy. Crumbs from the table.
It's clear that we're on the same side here. As a gay woman, I think I often have knee-jerk reactions to those who are against me having the same civil rights as the sexual majority. This is a civil rights issue.
Stepping away from the civil rights issue for a moment, I'm also concerned that Obama voted to confirm Condi Rice. That disappointed me. Actually, I haven't really cared for him since his, "We believe in an Awesome God in the Blue States" comment at the DNC in 2004. Who the hell was he speaking for, because it sure wasn't me.
Peace,
Trathena
*Please let me know if you don't want me abbreviating your name.
Marriage is absolutely a religious practice, and as you know, there are many, many gay religious citizens, and yes, they can find churches that will give them that spiritual union they want.
No matter how many churches marry people--gay or straight--we need that civil marriage. But straight people who get civil marriages can go anywhere in the country and their marriage is recognized. They can move from state to state and they remain married wherever they go. That's not the case for civil unions for gay people. And NO politician who says he/she supports only civil unions adds that they want this changed. They, instead, leave it up to the states (and we all know how well that worked during Jim Crow). They all act as if giving us the crumbs of civil unions isn't an insult. And it is. Until a politician says, "I'm against gay marriage, but I support civil unions for gay people that are recognized throughout the country, and will introduce legislation for this," I'll still consider him/her a bigoted politician offering nothing more than a separate but equal policy. Crumbs from the table.
Originally posted by TheRuleofThree
Obama's best characteristic is his ability to recognize both sides of an issue and find a compromise, and I personally feel that he's accomplished that with this issue.
Peace,
Trathena
*Please let me know if you don't want me abbreviating your name.
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